Hwasin: Controller of the Heart
Things are so messed up and out of control here!
This is Ahn Ye Seung.
[His attractiveness dominates the studio.]
[Bae Soo Bin]
Is this what Cheongdam style is to you?
[Dong Yup's hand-picked national pervert!]
[Soh Yi Hyun]
- Want to kiss me? - Are you trying to sound young?
[Im Seul Ong]
You can eat it, right?
So you don't show any respect to your guests?
Let's do that one again. It's no good!
[Kim Jae Dong]
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Show us the problem.
Good. Well done.
[First: Recognizing a problem.]
[It takes place at...]
[A cafe.]
Oh my! Really?
Oh, you pay attention to detail.
Okay, thank you, girl.
If this works out, I'll treat a nice dinner.
Okay!
[Anticipation!]
- Are you Miss Kim Hee Sun? - Yes, I am.
Yes, I am no other than Shin Dong Yup.
Ah, yes, hi! Please take a seat.
[She has a great impression of her blind date.]
By the way, you are far more beautiful than I heard.
Oh my, really?
Wow!
Your nail art looks so pretty.
Did you use the gel nail polish which lasts a month?
Your cuticles look very clean as well.
Ah, yes... Oh... Thank you.
You are very detail-oriented.
Most importantly, your makeup is done very well.
Your use foundation number 21 beige color, right?
[Correct]
And your used tint orange color. Oh, good choice.
[Correct]
Yes, that's right. You really are detail-oriented...
- Excuse me. - No problem.
Sorry.
[Oh no!]
Hello.
Ah... I can't talk right now.
No, I am just on a blind date. Okay.
- I am sorry. - No, it's all right.
By the way, you have a unique looking doll on your cell phone.
Ah, isn't it so pretty?
I am so happy to always be with her.
I see...
It might be rude to ask you this but...
Could I bring my friend over here for a second?
Pardon? A friend? Why would you bring your friend to our blind date?
My friend asked me to introduce her when I meet someone I really like.
- I am sorry. - That's fine, then...
Francois.
Francois?
- Say hi. - 'Hi.'
I hate that so much.
I think he's a pervert.
Have a seat here, okay?
Isn't she pretty?
Please bring a cup of water for Francois.
[It's hard for to watch how he talks to Francois.]
Oh, Francois!
Long time no see.
[Beverage made for her.]
Here is low-fat milk that you like.
[Isn't he happy...]
You guys are a couple of perverts!
You laugh now but
don't you feel like a pervert like that sometimes?
Because there is a Shin Dong Yup in each and every one of us.
The moments you felt you might be acting like a pervert.
When did you feel that way?
In the question of this week, we talk about me, Shin Dong Yup.
There is a Shin Dong Yup in everyone.
When I feel like a pervert, there is a Shin Dong Yup in me.
I can relate to it so much.
When one of his hands goes under the table, I wonder what is he doing with that hand.
- But you know when a man... - Always keep your hands visible.
[Ah! We can't see them now!]
Like this. Like this. I wonder what is he doing when he does that.
What does the word 'pervert' mean?
- It's hard to say what's standard. - There isn't the standard, really.
It's ambiguous.
It was originally a word to describe behavior that is unique and extreme.
For example, it could be like...
I think it's perverted to judge whether something is perverted or not.
That's right. There isn't such things as 'normal' or 'perverted.'
Still you recognize it in yourself, right?
- That you have a sly side of you, right? - How can one live without it.
[Yes! This sly look!]
Let's see when we feel like total perverts.
Let's guess what received the highest number of votes.
When I wasn't dating anyone
I miss physical touching
or when you think of your ex-lover, your body comes to life, right?
In order to give life to my 'romantic' side, I drank a lot.
[Hi, comrade?]
Someone did tell me I am a little Kim Hee Sun.
Seriously, her nickname is 'Little Kim Hee Sun.'
I mean, you have a lot of fun and you don't get drunk, right?
Thank you for saying it that way.
I live close to the Han river.
During dawn, I would drive to the river and drink wine and beer by myself.
- Wine? - Yes.
What about drinking glasses? You bring them with you?
She's cool. She is cool.
By yourself?
They play music at the dock for the Han river cruise ship, right?
I turn on the music and I drink. And it feels so good.
By yourself?
- Come on. By yourself? - Yes, yes, I like it that way because...
When I witness what happens after that, it's most enjoyable when I'm by myself.
During dawn, at places like a street light or under a bridge...
There are quite a few young lovers there.
I watch them with a big smile on my face...
- They don't know you're watching, right? - They don't.
Do their car windows get foggy?
[Soh Yi Hyun knows about the pleasures of these things?]
Because...
What do you get to witness the most?
Kissing is what I see the most.
The most romantic couple I saw was...
There were many people there that day.
She's thinking about it.
It was a little before daybreak.
It was when the sky looks green-ish.
I felt so lonely so I called my friend and said, 'Must I go on like this?'
I think it was an anniversary for this couple.
They were holding hands and walking and the guy was carrying a cake.
They were kissing whenever they took a step.
Like this.
- They were probably too drunk to walk. - It wasn't like that!
I could see love hearts coming out of this couple.
'Let's see how long do they keep dong that,' I thought to myself.
I did a live broadcast for my friend until I couldn't see them anymore.
'I think they kissed 78 times,' I told her.
'They are going to lose their lips,' I told her. But still...
I was so envious of them.
So, you tend to enjoy looking at them?
For someone like me, it's very hard to show any physical affection in public.
You want to but can't.
I think I get pleasure out of watching it.
Yi Hyun, have you seen a couple in a cafe...
Couples who show physical affection in public without worrying about others...
When it comes to me
- I don't like watching them out in the open. - In secret?
Using a mirror...
- They do that in movies. - Ah. Like this?
You look and turn it 45 degrees.
You know the angle.
I think, based on what Yi Hyun said, she custom-made a periscope for that.
- I didn't. - A periscope, right?
She opens the sun roof and takes her periscope out.
- Have you ever done that overseas? - No, only within the country...
What comes to your mind when you watch them?
Mmm... About...
[Thinking about it?]
'I want that too.' Wondering if I'll get to do that.
Have you ever been caught watching them?
Not yet...
[She has the perfect record so far!]
I haven't been.
Ah, ah, something just came to my mind.
When you live in an apartment complex...
- Watching someone on the other side? - I work out a lot.
I have a lot of muscles.
There I times when I don't close the curtain.
- Yes, I do that too. - Oh, 'I do that too.'
You want them to look?
That's when I used to be pretty muscular.
I would take a long time taking my shirt off on a movie set.
Going for a walk for a reason.
- Which TV drama were you acting in? - It was 'The Temptation of Angel.'
There was a swimming pool scene.
That's when I did chin-ups in front of the female production staff.
It's a very unique mindset.
When you're looking at a couple touching each other, it really is fun.
But when you drive yourself to the location...
Someone who drives there just to watch it...
You two could be a match.
Yes, you are.
- Where do you live? - Where do you live?
'Where do you live?'
I often run in the Jamwon area.
- Oh? He said Jamwon area. - Jamwon area.
- What do you wear when you run? - I wear a tight half sleeved top.
I like that.
Her eyes are shooting hearts.
I think people will become suspicious when I go to the Han riverside.
'Hey, Soh Yi Hyun is at the Han riverside!'
- 'Soh Yi Hyun is here!' - 'Soh Yi Hyun shows up at the riverside.'
You can't go there anymore.
Since Yi Hyun is experienced in it, how about giving it a try?
- Shall I? - The wind pressure is so high.
Since you're here, don't shy away.
- Yes, I got it. - Okay.
If you open your mouth, it's funny...
Asking an actress to open to open her mouth is a little...
I'll tell them that.
[Good to have an actress as a host.]
Let's check the answer.
Secretly watching lovers show physical affection.
[First place!]
Received the most votes among people in their fifties.
[She read the minds of people in their fifties!]
'I feel like a pervert when I secretly look at couples' intimate moments.'
When I look at this
they reminiscence about the times they acted similarly.
I think it's an opportunity for them to cherish the memories of their early years.
That's when they think they might be somewhat of a pervert.
Highest number of votes among them.
A female actress, Soh Yi Hyun, accurately guessed a question about perversion.
She did.
She is experience in it.
She's already experienced things people in their fifties go through.
Another instance is when I'm talking to a woman in a revealing top.
If I were to talk to you, Hee Sun, when you are wearing a revealing top
I look down at least once.
You keep looking at me but you can't look at Yi Hyun.
There are times when they react by covering themselves up.
Then I feel so embarrassed.
[Checking her clothes.]
Yi Hyun, she didn't like hearing that.
Times like that! That's when I keep my line of sight straight at the eye level.
I think faulting men for looking down...
If they don't want that, they shouldn't wear it.
You can look at it when you shift your line of sight from down to up.
What you can do is...
You look at their eyes and deliberately look down.
You can look when you bring your eyes back up to their eye level.
Yes, of course.
- I never thought of that. - They don't get offended that way.
But you shouldn't do it this way.
It's very difficult for men.
It really is, especially when you go to an award ceremony.
Yeah, that's what I mean.
I think it's counter-productive when your dress is way too revealing.
Was there someone you know who did that?
I saw her phone number on your cell phone.
Oh, I'm so angry.
I've been doing this how many years and Hee Sun owns me like this.
The world's most frivolous person, Yoon Jong Shin.
She's been owning him for several days now.
Our first meeting, she lied, set people against each other, and slandered.
Look at Soo Bin with his beard.
We talked about it today.
It matches our theme today.
He's prepared.
I am playing Gwang Hae in a play.
I find if I use a fake beard, I sweat and it falls off.
When I look at people with a beard like that...
I think it's so cool when they shave their beard.
- Something you can see in music videos. - Yes, it looks so cool.
- I wanted to do it myself. - You want to shave your boyfriend.
In movies, a girlfriend does it for her boyfriend.
It looks good only on TV commercials. In reality, you get a lot of cuts.
They do this with their mouth too.
[Hee Sun's detailed description.]
I do something like...
When you cut yourself while shaving and apply alcohol on it.
I like that feeling.
- Doesn't it hurt? - It does.
It hurts but you feel good and pleasure from it?
You know what I mean?
I think I do that too. Inflict pain on myself.
Oh, really?
It could be something only I do.
I tend to become a little obsessive.
It is like being a pervert.
When I start something, I need to get to the end of it.
I went on a climbing course that takes 24 hours to complete, starting at four in the morning.
Eleven hours into it, I injured myself, at five in the afternoon.
Oh my!
It was getting dark and I almost crawled down the mountain.
Wow.
- Is it like enjoying pain? - I was enjoying the pain.
It hurts but you are immersed in the experience.
- You are still... - You feel a catharsis.
When feel your body in pain.
In my case, I am addicted to working out, definitely.
So the tendons in my shoulders are over-stretched or ripped.
Same thing in the back of my shoulders.
I think I worked out only when I felt the pain.
Same thing with my knees.
Because of that I can't put my arm under my head when I sleep.
One time I took a two week break because it hurt so much.
The thoughts I had during the break were...
When you watch a documentary on biology
they show you cholesterol accumulating in the blood vessels, right?
I have images like that.
I think, 'My vessels are building up cholesterol right now.'
When you watch what they show you, it looks terrifying, right?
I think, 'I need to hurt. I need to work out until it hurts.'
- Hurting your body. - Like climbing.
When you climb mountains, you come across cemeteries.
At night, I didn't have to go through there but
I went there anyway.
It's like testing how courageous you are, right?
When I'm there, I feel goosebumps and the cells in my body waking up.
- And all by yourself? - Yes.
- He's cool. - And you deliberately walk slowly.
I walk slowly, feeling the energy in my body.
Yes...
Ii was supposed to be pitch dark when I was there.
But I saw some sort of light flashing.
There were also spooky trees inside the cemetery.
It woke me right up.
'What is that? What is that?'
It reminded me of all the ghost stories I've heard.
Seriously, I decided to confront it so I ran towards it screaming like a mad man.
He screams since he's scared, 'Ahhhhhh!'
[It sounds cool and it's funny imagining the scene.]
Usually people run away from it screaming like a mad man.
What time was it?
- It was about two. - In the morning?
I was like, 'Who is it!' And ran towards it.
It turns out the light was from an electric sign.
It was a sign that said, 'Beware of forest fire.'
The sign was upside down.
[Soo Bin was kind of confused!]
Since we're talking about ghosts, I remembered this one time.
Since I don't get scared easily I have never had a paralyzing nightmare.
After I debuted, I think I was pretty stressed.
I had a nightmare for the first time.
I was sleeping on the lower-level of a bunk bed.
When I opened my eyes, there was a ghost sitting on ladder and looking at me like this.
- It was looking at you. - Yes.
But I liked the idea of seeing a ghost for the first time in my life.
I could have woken up but I chose to spend hours looking at the ghost.
- The ghost must've been pretty. - A female ghost?
I couldn't remember its face after waking up.
I remember that it had a scary looking face.
I kept sleeping and looking at it like this.
- It was scary but you enjoyed it. - Yes.
I had that feeling of goosebumps.
[It's perverted to enjoy being scared?]
Soo Bin, you said the answer might be something about enjoying pain, right?
When you say your answer, Soo Bin
I am curious what would happen if you let the wind blow on the side of your beard?
To see whether it moves or not.
- Okay. - Let's check the answer.
When we enjoy feeling pain.
[Not on the list.]
- I could see his skin. - Really?
- Does it look messed up? - No, it looks fine.
It looks fine.
I have something like that too.
In my case, however, I like inflicting psychological pain on myself.
I feel pleasure when I swear out loud.
You have a very honest lifestyle, right?
I am not like that in reality.
Dong Yup, you always tell me it's only because of my first impression.
He started his TV career all wrong.
There are 'sayings by Kim Jae Dong,' aren't there?
It's like you feel obligated to live by your words?
I feel so embarrassed by that.
I wonder why I ever said things like that.
'What's that mean? What is that?'
I felt so uncomfortable when people started talking about it.
I think you're the one who says embarrassing things about yourself the most.
There are so many. It's almost every one of them.
Don't laugh since I'm already criticizing myself, okay?
'Love is a taxi. You have to pay for as long as you were on it.'
You have to pay the taxi fare based on how far the trip was.
'If you cannot hold onto the current of a river, then become an ocean and wait instead.'
You once said it, right?
Is it a line from Kang San Ae's song?
[Going upstream through the current of a river.]
I did mean it when I said it.
- Ah, I am sorry. - No, no, no.
You came up with that on your own, right?
Some of them I came up on my own, some of them I quoted.
And some of them are mixtures of both.
Some of them were ideas from a book titled 'Good Ideas.'
- What did you mean? - Ah, the current of river...
I said it when I was 21 years old and drinking with someone.
My classmates and I were drinking on a playground.
When I say something like that to them, they totally fall for it.
I said to a friend who was heart-broken after a break up
'Can you hold onto the current of a river? You can't no matter how hard you try.'
'What if you become an ocean and wait for her?'
'You might run into her in this river of life that way.'
I told him that but when I reflected on it many years later
I don't like that I was talking about it as if I was his boss.
I don't know about the taxi one.
- But I like the river one. - Ah, really?
Then, should I do a little more with it?
Jae Dong, are you doing better on criticizing yourself less?
These days I've been deliberately working on that.
I've never thought that I am a good person.
Seriously. That's how I looked at myself.
I would like to change the way I look at myself.
They say to be like a chilly wind to yourself and like a spring breeze to others.
- Another one from the book. - It was said by someone else.
It was said by someone else. I feel like... How do you say?
I feel traumatized.
- It was said by someone else. - Someone else said it.
I would like to be like a spring breeze to myself and to others too.
I think I'm too harsh on myself.
I would like to be nicer to myself.
[We need more self-love than self-criticism.]
- Yi Hyun. - Yes?
You come across tips on how to date when you read magazines.
I heard you pay attention and even take photos of the articles?
Really?
There are magazines that write a lot of articles about things like that, you know?
How can you sit and do nothing for hours at a beauty shop?
Right. When you read it
since there are a lot of people in the shop, you can't study it.
Instead you take photos as if you're a spy.
People go past those articles quickly
but upon closer inspection, they keep their finger on the page, right?
[The finger remembers which page it is!]
Wow.
They flip through the pages but a finger is on that page.
I am getting my hair done so I take a photo of that page instead.
You take a picture of it.
What were the articles that you were reading?
'How to seduce a guy you just met in ten seconds.'
'How to make your man get closer to you.'
'How to know if your man is cheating on you.'
- You read on how to kiss, right? - I do.
I read about this one on a magazine as well.
It's regarding physical intimacy.
It talked about psychology of perversion that exists in playing hard to get.
So it's regarding physical intimacy.
I think I get so attracted to a man who's not forward about physical intimacy.
There are men who want to but they can't get themselves to do it.
- I can see right through them. - Oh, that's right.
I can see he wants to touch my hand or cheeks and kiss but he doesn't.
- Then I want to do it even more. - So you lead them towards it?
- I just do it. - You just do it?
They like people who are like that.
I learned this one in a magazine as well.
- In situations like that, you should take the lead. - When you take the lead, you can arouse them.
It talked about the psychology behind it.
It said men think about it 100 times before holding a woman's hand.
'Will she think I am a pervert?'
'Will she think I am too easy?' Thoughts like that.
At times like that, when you hold his hand for him...
When he's in doubt, woman do this to him?
- Something like that? - Oh... What? I was so surprised.
The magazine said it's all right for women to take the lead?
- Yes, so I applied it. - You did?
It was only a little after I started going out with him.
On one date, he planned so many events for that day.
Anyone could tell he picked locations that are dating hot spots.
He picked places that were quiet and not many people visited.
So he took you to out side of the city?
We went to places outside the city and to a nice place beside a valley.
Places like Misari, Yangpyung, Cheongpyung.
I knew what he wanted but we didn't make any progress.
I knew he wanted to hold my hand and kiss me as well.
But he didn't do it, so I...
I waited for him to make a move. I was enjoying it so much.
That could be embarrassing for the man.
When he's about to go for it but if she does it first.
Let's hear her out and then share our reaction to it.
Then, what? Then, what?
And also, when she's talking about things like this, please don't cut her off.
[Help me focus on the story!]
[Talk about it slowly and in detail!]
Men become very cautious about it, right?
He can't just do as he wants to.
It was so clear he wanted the right time to make it romantic as well.
We visited only nice places and ate only delicious food.
It was so cute but the progress was so slow.
I thought it would be the right time when we arrived in front of my house.
She's home.
We were talking in the car and a chance arrived.
- Felt it. - I could feel it.
[Ah! So interesting!]
- Were you in the car? - Yes.
We already looked into each other's eyes as well.
But when it was time, I could feel the nervous energy in him.
I felt his breath and nervous energy.
I thought, 'I can't hold it any longer,' to myself.
[We can't hold it any longer either!]
Wow, Yi Hyun is so honest!
[Why are you drooling?]
Why are you drooling?
- Then, what? - Slow down and tell it in detail.
Please don't cut her off! Please.
So I held his hands and...
It's okay to re-enact it.
Then I kiss him.
The magazine talked about the skills in kissing.
- You were holding his hand? - Yes.
I couldn't move to deep kissing.
I kissed his lips for a split second.
And then I looked into his eyes.
And then we kissed on the lips again. We did that about three times.
Please re-enact it with Kim Jae Dong.
[Sorry, please wait.]
Do that before THE recording begins!
Replace the battery in advance!
Wow, I just can't... Wow, seriously.
At an important moment like this and he's in this position.
My position is weird too!
- Let's re-enact it? - Yes, yes.
I had a good time today.
I had so much fun. So much.
And you look at her.
Thank you.
[Nervousness is in the air...]
Sweetie.
[Ah... So so sweet.]
She said, 'Sweetie.'
Don't cut her off!
[Okay. No more pauses.]
Thank you for today.
[Sensing that he's nervous.]
Like this.
[Why are you taking off your glasses?]
[Yi Hyun is making them fall in love with her.]
The way she said, 'Sweetie.'
- That just does it for men. - Ah, was that everything?
After that, the guy takes the lead.
Since he's confident now.
Can you re-enact it with Soo Bin?
She rehearsed with an assistant producer already.
[The rehearsal is over now.]
- We'll start this. - Sure, sure.
Here's the slate.
Yes, one, two, three, four, and five.
Here we go.
- The restaurant was pretty good, right? - Yes, it was good.
[She knows what's happening and is waiting for him.]
- I liked it too. - Me too.
[Hesitant. Hesitant.]
[Nervous...]
Sweetie.
[Holding his hand.]
Thank you for today.
Gosh, I think I'm going to die.
Do it like you did with me.
Like the last time.
- Let's do it again. - Okay, okay.
It's a bad take.
Please don't abuse your authority.
- Wow, looking at it like that... - You feel very nervous in reality.
- Okay, do you want to guess the answer? - Yes.
When I use a tip on physical intimacy from a magazine in real life.
Okay. Let's check the answer!
[First place for people in their thirties.]
[First place for people in their forties.]
Why if she wasn't here today?
What should I do?
It means there are many people who think like you do.
You mastered it.
An iconic pervert, Soh Yi Hyun.
I.P. (Iconic Pervert) Soh Yi Hyun.
Oh, what do I do now?
She's on par with Yoo Hee Yeul.
I.P. Soh Yi Hyun or Watching-in-Secret Soh Yi Hyun?
It received the most votes from people in their thirties and forties.
It's around that age that ennui is most prevalent.
So they find and use daring ways of sharing physical intimacy to overcome it.
You might worry that you're a pervert in situations like that.
Most people are married at that age.
You need some kind of stimulation, right?
They tell couples to use motels instead of their home as well.
For a change of scenery.
Instead of using the bed in the bedroom all the time.
They said role-playing that isn't too extreme can revitalize the marriage as well.
- It makes it fun. - How do you do it?
I'll use some of them in the future.
So how do you plan to use them?
Once I do it, I'll do it 100%.
[He is 100% committed with things like this.]
What was an intimate moment that was most memorable?
The place that you remember.
You might have done it already.
It was a few days after we started going out.
We talked all night long. We were on cloud nine.
We talked until four thirty in the morning.
We agreed to meet at the school at five thirty in the morning.
Nobody's there, right?
Just before daybreak, we toured the school.
Up on hearing that, I remember going to my girlfriend's house.
She said her parents come home at two in the morning.
That's when...
When the timing was running out... I kissed her.
I debuted when I was 19.
The only place where you can share physical intimacy is that place, right?
The shooting location.
I liked him so much.
When we had a kiss scene, I had to make sure nobody knew we were going out.
You have to be careful about it.
- You can't lose yourself in it. - You have to match the script.
You can't lose yourself kissing when it was supposed to be between two shy lovers.
You have to stop when the director says 'cut.'
So you know...
It's times like that when I feel cautious and nervous.
You know I am married, right?
There was a kiss scene with Lee Min Ho in a TV drama.
I have a husband but I have to do it because it's my job.
I hated it so much.
[I wonder how much you 'hated' it.]
'Why do I have to this?'
How did you find three perverted hosts like them?
[The chemistry of the hosts fits right into today's theme.]
It's as if you created the show just for today.
You picked the perfect people.
The last one.
I had an experience of relating everything and anything with something erotic.
Even when I look at an airplane, it made me think of...
- I haven't gone that far. - You sure?
Such a pervert.
I read in a book once
there are things designed after stuff like that.
The glass coke bottle was designed after a woman's body shape.
You need to design the shape of a product after something sexual
to make people attracted to it.
- Right, right. - I read that.
After reading about it, I started seeing the world through that lens.
Does this make it sound better?
Times like that I think to myself, 'Am I a pervert?'
That could be very normal.
Professor Kim Jeung Woon was a guest on a talk show I am in, right?
He asked me to bring two items that are most important in my life.
I brought a mic since I do talk shows
and I brought a baseball bat that Lee Song Yup gave to me.
And he tells me that I am sexually repressed.
I mean, come on.
He tells me both of the items represent men's private parts.
What can I do with something like that?
I was having dinner with Lee Hyo Ri and I picked up a mushroom.
She said, 'Yeah, he's sexually repressed.'
Then what should I pick up?
My family went to an amusement park in Yongin.
We went to look at horses.
There are times when horses are extra excited, right?
- How old was your son? - La Yik was six years old.
'Dad, that horse has another leg.'
You know how innocent kids are.
I had a similar experience when I was young.
It looked different than what I remember from books.
At the time, there were so many kids and moms around us.
We were there when the horse was in that state.
But my wife and I couldn't explain it to our son.
Why not?
You can say, 'Horse pee with it like you pee with it.'
What if he asks 'Why does it look like that when it pees?'
[Beyond recovery.]
I didn't know things would get as bad as it did.
This is your fault, Jae Dong.
- Why me? - Why does an airplane makes you think of it?
- I read it somewhere. - It's because of that airplane.
I read they had that factor in mind when they were designing airplanes and pencils.
It is true.
Things are out of control and messed up.
- I did it. - Finish it with an insightful quote.
River's currents...
[Needs to finish it beautifully.]
Okay.
Every success is related to sex.
- A scholar named Erich Fromm said that. - He wrote 'Art of Loving.'
'The origin of every imagination is sexuality.'
So when you start repressing sexuality, you'll also repress your imagination.
That's true.
I am not sure if Erich Fromm said it.
Please look it up.
Let's say it's either Carl Jung or Erich Fromm who said it.
Let's make that Erich Jung.
- Someone you can't look up. - All right, Jae Dong.
When everything and every situation seems associated to sexuality.
Let's check the answer!
[Not listed!]
It's a little different. It's close.
For some reason, for as long as I can remember
I understood the dirty jokes the adults were telling.
You understood?
- I knew what they meant. - She was a prodigy.
A prodigy in perversion.
She' a P.P. (Prodigy Perversion).
- We came up with so many nicknames for her. - What do I do?
I knew what they were saying.
- But I didn't want to make it known. - And you can't.
You can't do that. You can't laugh at the joke nor should you blush.
When I started to hear everything as something erotic
later on I asked myself, 'How should I handle this?'
I watched an erotic movie for the first time when I was in grade nine.
I didn't have access to it because I only had sisters before that.
If one of my friends had an older brother
who almost always had a video somewhere.
When everyone in my friend's house went out
me and seven of my friends went to her house and started looking for the tape.
I had never seen it before and I was so fascinated by it.
- That would be so nerve-wracking. - Yes, some of us were cooking.
- Like throwing a party. - Because we all wanted to watch it.
It's like a big party.
It's a big, big party.
It's time for an erotic movie night.
[We party today!]
We never even knew how erotic the movie was.
We were thinking of it as a regular movie night.
Some of us were cooking and the rest of us were looking for that tape.
After searching for it everywhere, we found it.
We watched it and it wasn't romantic like we thought at all.
- It didn't even have a title. - Didn't have a title.
After watching it, none of us could eat the food.
Right, it's so explicit.
After that day, that's what I thought of when I looked at a man and woman dating.
I was in complete shock.
I took on a jilted perception of romantic relationships.
I've never watched an erotic movie after that.
- I saw a new world after that. - New world?
I found it in romantic comics.
- You got into anime. - There is a category for that too.
Have you seen 'Sexy Boy?'
- Girls our age... - You know 'Sexy Boy?'
It's not R-rated. I stopped watching anything R-rated.
I felt more inclined to read content made for teens.
I enjoyed listening to an audio version of it.
I liked looking at the main characters of romantic comics kissing much better.
Then I started reading romantic comedies.
- I used my imagination. - Reading a book can be very stimulating.
I don't get anything from watching an erotic video at all.
You mastered it.
Jae Dong asked, 'What is perverted and what is normal?'
Who gets to decide that?
Even if you think of something strange, you don't have to think you're doing something wrong.
But if that's the correct answer, she guessed every question correctly.
Soh Yi Hyun 100%.
I hope I got it wrong.
Then, she becomes a living witness of the history in perversion.
The example of a pervert?
I hope, I hope I got it wrong.
'When I understand every dirty joke someone tells.'
[First place for people in their twenties!]
Soh Yi Hyun killed it.
[Gosh!]
'When I immediately understand a dirty joke written or spoken.'
I've always been a fan of Shin Dong Yup.
See? When you pick Shin Dong Yup as your favorite out of so many comedians
that means you are made for it.
Dong Yup, you are playing a huge role in this.
If you want counseling on healthy sexuality...
I found I am as normal as anyone.
I gave answers that most people were thinking, right?
True.
I hope you don't make me look like an iconic pervert.
So, I am now a mind-controller.
[Second: Recognizing a problem.]
[The place we come across a problem this time is...]
[An airport?]
[Newly-wed couple waiting to go on a honeymoon trip.]
I love you, honey.
I love you so much, honey.
[He looks around and...]
[Dong Yup improvises and goes for it.]
There are people watching.
Nobody is watching us.
[Watching-in-Secret Soh Yi Hyun.]
[I am watching.]
What are you doing? We are a married couple now.
- We are going on our honeymoon. - Yes, we are.
[He just won't give up.]
Who does this to her husband?
Let's do it as scripted.
- You know... - Yes.
We are going on our honeymoon now.
Honey, let's be totally honest and be happy for the rest of our lives.
We need to be like one person.
Yes, of course. I am not hiding anything from you, honey.
Oh, Hee Sun.
[Man number one: Yoon Jong Shin.]
- Oh, Mr. Jong Shin? - What?
What? 'Mr. Jong Shin?'
What are you saying? Both of us were born in 1969.
Hey, we were a campus couple in 1988.
Remember the 1988 Olympics?
Wow, you haven't aged a bit.
- Your skin is so tight. Did you stretch it? - What are you talking about?
Come to the reunion, okay?
Born in 1969?
Born in 1969...
Honey... No... Ms...
Ms... Did you lie about your age?
Yes, I am that old.
So you don't love me? You hate older woman?
Don't you love me?
You know, I...
It's not that, Ms. No, no.
I don't care about it. We will celebrate our seventieth birthday together.
Honey, I don't care about your age.
I wished you would've told me earlier. I would still have married you.
- Really? Thank you. - Yes, okay.
[Man number two: Bae Soo Bin.]
Hee Sun?
Oh, who are you? I am her... husband.
Soo Bin?
[Her... husband...]
- Long time no see. - Oh...
You've met someone nice.
So the ring we bought in Italy... I'll give it back to you.
- Be happy... - Oh, thank you...
- Please take a good care of her. - Oh, who are you?
This is a wedding ring.
Ah, honey!
You were already married too?
Yes, I was once married.
So don't you love me, then?
Tell me. Don't you love me?
I do. I do love you.
But if you told me that you were married, it would've been easier to do it.
Okay, having married once before isn't a big deal.
I heard a lot of men marry divorced women.
Right?
Yes, I love you. Let us be happy.
At least you don't have children.
Hey, Kim Hee Sun.
Oh, Seul Ong.
How could you not come to Min Soo's kindergarten graduation ceremony?
About that...
Min Soo waited to see his mom for so long.
And what about her? It's time for her lunch.
That's okay.
You should feed her your breast milk.
You won't ever get to see us anymore.
- Oh. Oh. - What's this?
Honey, you had children too?
Two kids. How many lies were you telling me?
How many lies?
[Man number four: Kim Jae Dong.]
Boss, you need to get out of here.
The police are looking for you because of the Youngdeungpo incident.
There is no time feel shocked.
You have to go hide, boss.
Honey! Hide where? Who is this spine-basher who can't even act?
Why is he so awkward?
What's this? Tell me!
How many lies were you telling me? Tell me!
[Finally.]
Where did you get your face done?
Hee Sun, let's start over.
It's time for breast-feeding.
Yes, I am a woman with a past. Can't you forgive me if you love me?
Let's start it over.
[A situation like this.]
You want know about it so much until you do.
Once you get to know the history of your lover, you feel bothered and very uncomfortable.
Pandora's Box for every couple.
You find out about your lover's past and feel so bothered and uncomfortable.
What do you think it is?
Where did you get your face done?
[The skit is over and it's time to talk about it!]
Soo Bin's acting was just...
I saw him come up to me with moist eyes.
And it was just...
I almost fell in love because of his moist eyes.
Please show us how you did it.
I need to get focused.
[Getting focused...]
[What happened to our marriage!]
I envy those eyes.
The truth of your lover's past bothers you once you find out about it.
Please guess the answers that were most popular in every age group.
This could be very helpful hints for new lovers.
If you're thinking about telling your lover about this thing
don't share it if what you were going to say is in the rankings.
It could be troublesome.
- This one comes to my mind. - What is it about?
I went on a drive with my girlfriend.
- She knew everything. - Oh...
When we were on a highway, I asked her what the toll gate fee was.
She knew how much it was.
We went for hike and she knew where not to go.
Yes. Something like that.
- She'd been there before? - She'd been there before.
Many couples go to Nam mountain, right?
I had never used Nam mountain as a date site.
I wanted to go there with her for the first time ever.
I searched on the internet about it.
I took her there and she wasn't impressed at all.
- She'd done that before. - She knew which path to take.
She knew everything about that place.
'How do you know about this place?' 'I come here often.'
When I heard that I didn't know what to feel.
I just felt awkward.
She certainly visited the place with someone else.
It's about being considerate to your boyfriend who planned it.
It's not polite to know so much about it.
I've done this before.
I pretended I didn't know anything about it.
I pretended I've never been there before.
I had to go to bathroom.
Since I've been there so many times, I didn't ask where the bathroom was.
If I was there for the first time, I would've asked him where the bathroom was.
But you were in a hurry.
They are bathrooms you need a key to get into.
But when you take the key like this...
That would be so scary to see.
[She said she's never been here before...]
How did your boyfriend react to that?
Did he ask you about it?
He asked me if I had been there before.
I did tell him about it, but I regretted it later.
I thought I should've pretended I had never been there before.
A waiter came to our table and said, since I am a public figure
'Yi Hyun, things as going well like they used to?'
[So awkward just thinking about it.]
'Things are going well for you?'
'Yes,' I told him.
Let's check the answer!
[When your date knows about the dating spot that you don't.]
[Ninth place.]
I thought he was wearing a wig.
It's in ninth place.
'I feel sad because my date has already been to every dating spot that I go with her/him.'
About seven or eight years ago, I was in a TV drama titled 'Ju Mong.'
When the show was over, we did a farewell party.
So I told my girlfriend I was dating at the time
'I'm going to a farewell party so don't worry about me and go to sleep.'
And I went to a dance hall with male actors.
You mean a dance club? Why not?
The one I was going out with kept calling me without going to bed.
But I didn't want to lie.
So I didn't pick up the phone.
That's the problem.
Not picking up the phone because you didn't want to lie.
I wasn't answering.
The day after, someone wrote a news article about our party.
There was an article about it and someone commented
'I saw Soo Bin at a dance club last night. Not interesting.'
There was this comment on it.
- Somehow... She... - She read it.
After that she didn't answer my calls.
Did your girlfriend get mad because you went to a dance club?
Or was it because of that comment?
She might have felt offended.
'Why do you go there and let someone tell you you're not interesting?'
It was because... I lied to her.
How long did it take for things to get better?
I think it took about a week.
It took a while.
I begged and pleaded as if my life depended on it.
How would that even look?
Would it be like this?
'Oh, I am sorry. I am sorry. I am sorry.'
- Okay. - Please take the stage.
[Curious about how a charming guy dances!]
- Be natural about it. - Look at that.
[Like a blue jay flying in the sky!]
[The gigolo is shy?]
[Flying wings!]
[Ah, embarrassing.]
[It's hot in the studio today!]
When you find out your lover often goes to dance clubs.
[22nd place.]
I think it might be about feeling bothered because of my boyfriend's past.
His first kiss was with...
Before they enlist in the army, they make love for the first time, right?
I was so curious about that.
You have a lot of curiosity about these things.
[She's a master!]
She's like Goo Seung Ae.
No, no, no, it's not like that.
Isn't every woman curious about it?
Seriously, I am not like that.
[Goo Seung Ae is embarrassed about it.]
Jong Shin, wait a minute, so...
[Mental collapse.]
I've come across so many comparisons working in this business.
- But this one is just... - It was so fitting, right?
Are you going to be all right?
Goo Seung Ae is a very well-known person.
'Bawling Out' by Soh Yi Hyun.
That sounds good.
There are times that you are curious about it, right?
- Wondering when was his first kiss. - Yes, of course.
'When was your first kiss?'
Wait. Then do you ask him on your first date?
No, I ask after a long time.
Then do you bring it up, Yi Hyun?
I bring it up like this...
'I heard my friend's boyfriend had his first kiss when he was younger.'
'Then when was yours, sweetie?' You can ask it like that, right?
And I say, 'I am just curious.'
The answer that I want and the answer every woman want is
- 'I don't remember it.' - Oh, that's right.
Really?
'I don't remember it and I don't think about it.'
'Our first kiss was the best.' Something like that.
- But he takes time telling me about it. - When he doesn't hae to.
'I remember that one and it was just...'
[There are men who tell you everything about it.]
'Do you know how your first kiss feels?'
'My heart was beating so fast.'
He was telling me about it just like that.
'Should I tell you about it? It was snowing that day.'
[You get in trouble when you do this.]
So I want to let you know what men shouldn't tell their girlfriends.
Your first kiss, first time, and how many girlfriends you've had.
You shouldn't fall for these leading questions.
Then we should lie?
Have you ever asked about his former girlfriend?
- Yes... - Yes we do...
I asked him about his former girlfriend out of the blue.
'Was she cute? Was she good at drinking? How did she dress?' Questions like these.
When asked those things
'I don't know. I don't care.' That's what you should say.
That's the answer I want to hear.
But he said, 'I heard she got married.'
When I hear this, I know that he is still interested in her.
It means just that.
I feel bitter afterward.
The most tactless guys might answer like this.
The most tactless guys reply with
'Her...'
[A guy who reminiscences about it after taking a drink.]
- I hate that so much. - That's the worst.
Oh, I hate that.
I'm just re-enacting it.
When he talks badly about his former girlfriend, right?
I think, 'He will do that to me when he breaks up with me too.'
Oh, this is so very hard.
- How should we respond? - Keep saying you don't know.
I think saying that you don't remember is the best.
- Ah, really? - Then what if
your boyfriend ask your about your first kiss and first time?
'I like you the best, sweetie.'
- What if he says, 'Don't you remember?' - What if he asks that?
- I don't remember. - Seriously?
When she says that her expression is like...
She says that but her eyes say something different.
I could see that too.
In my case, I would ask her if she wants to hear the truth.
When you become serious about it, it's, you know...
'I tell her about it.' Option number one.
- When was your first kiss? - Want to kiss me?
[A guy who takes control anyway!]
[Soo Bin gets it too?]
Ah, this was it.
- Soo Bin hits the table and says... - I should've said that.
You solve a problem with your mouth, which was created with your mouth.
And Yi Hyun did this for the first time.
Yes, she recognizes an expert.
Were you looking for an answer like this?
Then, I can just move on without hearing an answer.
Right? Even though I knew that was just a short skit
when he said that
I couldn't say anything back.
I almost said, 'Yes.'
[Got to remember this, 'Want to kiss me?']
- Oh, I see. - Definitely.
So witty. I want to try that too.
- When was your first kiss? - Want to kiss me?
I asked you when was your first kiss.
[Aren't you going to answer me!]
Upon hearing Seul Ong's answer, I thought, 'This is what it means to be alive.'
You all are alive but...
We exist but do not live.
I am sure a lot of male viewers were shocked by that too.
Like we were.
Let's check the answer!
[When your lover talks about physical affection they shared with a former lover.]
[First place!]
Wow, they got them. All of them.
She's a goddess with things like this.
Yi Hyun gave correct answers to every question.
This has never happened before.
Within a limited area of interest, she answered every question correctly.
We'll just talk amongst ourselves and you, Yi Hyun, answer the questions for us.
[Soh Yi Hyun's Hwasin 'Bawl Out.']
I've never asked her when her first kiss was.
Me neither.
They asked the question to people under twenty, right?
Oh, that's right.
It's the time of your life when you express love through physical intimacy.
A high degree of physical intimacy means a high degree of love.
So it could be something shocking for people under twenty.
People in their forties just don't understand people under twenty.
[Now they understand.]
Right? Then, guess the answer given by people in their fifties.
[Oh my youth!]
How about you, Seul Ong?
Wondering why she talks about being heart-broken... About her last break up.
Wondering why she keeps brings those memories up.
- She does that more when she drinks. - Yes, the memory is very strong, right?
I can relate to her experience too...
Not the ones where I was going on dates.
I fell in love for the first time in my early twenties.
We went out for about a year and half or two years.
- It was very long for... - It was a delicate period for you.
I liked her because I couldn't find any solution to it.
when it comes to romantic relationship, you know.
After breaking up because I had to...
I couldn't get to sleep. So I...
sat awake until eight in the morning.
- Through the night? - I sat on my bed.
I couldn't get to sleep but I slept a little at eight in the morning.
When I woke up, I checked my phone, wondering if she called.
I was so heart-broken for about two weeks.
I lost five kilograms during that time.
That why I became so creative and started writing songs.
I still carry the lyrics that I wrote back then.
I loved it so much...
thinking back on it now.
I didn't make into a song but I wrote down for myself.
I wrote a song with habit as the theme.
How much I loved her...
When it rains, my left shoulder always needed to be wet because the umbrella is too small.
I started eating slowly as well.
I started walking slowly and drinking less with friends too.
I developed these habits because I was...
'My left shoulder always needed to be wet.'
It's because I need to make sure to cover her from rain.
In 'Bungee Jump,' Lee Byung Hun does that for his girlfriend. So cool.
The half of his shoulder was always wet.
What if Seul Ong talks about it and when his future girlfriend finds about this...
The song is about his former love, you know.
- That could offend her a little. - Yes.
Singers write songs about it, right?
It would be worse for them if it become a popular song.
But once you get married...
You know...
She knows the memories I shared with other women are foundations for the prosperity of our family.
So she wants you to write about them.
My wife tells me, 'Sweetie, try to remember them and feel sadder about it.'
When I am writing...
'You went out with this one too!'
'Remember them all!'
Because I am a composer who writes song about it
she wants me to remember them well.
When I write, I go to the chair we once sat in together.
Wondering how it felt.
I sit just the way I did before.
Then you can access those emotions.
How did you overcome it?
In those two weeks I was heart-broken, I planned to get to see her again.
- You mean her? - Yes.
Thinking, 'If I don't contact her for about six days, she'll probably feel as I do.'
By the seventh day, I wanted to send her at something.
I was thinking about it and I let her go after two weeks.
You didn't try to contact her?
Oh my gosh.
Have you ever searched her home page or her twitter?
- Yes, I searched her home page. - Home pages were popular, right?
The girl I went out with, I knew her from before.
I read what she wrote about a break up she went through.
We started going out a while after her last break up.
So you feel bothered just by the fact that she was heart-broken after breaking up with someone else?
One could feel that way.
Resisting the idea that she might have loved that person more.
I think one needs to go through that much pain in order to be able to love again.
['Why didn't I say that?']
- That is true. - That is the romantic thing to do.
Yes.
The person, who seemed to be too heart broken to love, falls in love again
because that person knows how to love others.
I think it really is like that.
Ah, that's a good one.
But if you watch today's episode in ten years, you'll feel so embarrassed by it.
Sound good now but...
And I get too embarrassed to even play guitar.
When I found out when they were heart-broken after their last break up.
When you found that out.
Let's check the answer!
[First place for people in their twenties.]
'When my lover took a long time to recover from a break up from her/his last relationship.'
Right.
It bothers you when you wonder if your lover is still holding onto her/his last relationship.
In one of Ha Rim's songs
there is a song titled, 'Forgetting about love with love.'
Park Ju Hyun wrote the lyrics.
A couple came to listen to that song.
Ha Rim was singing the song.
Oh my, oh my, she shouldn't do that.
Ha Rim looked at the audience.
And... the lady was crying.
She did it in secret.
She found a different love.
When you listen to the song, it's not about holding onto the past.
It's about forgetting and letting go with new love and she rekindled the memories while listening.
She was crying.
Yi Hyun, have you ever refused eat or drink water after a break up?
I didn't refuse to eat.
I ate every meal.
There is a song about that too.
I drank as well.
Women often make the mistake of calling him.
Right.
It's the worst when you call your ex-boyfriend after drinking.
Men do that too.
It looks worse for women
because we cry.
Why would you cry when you broke up with him?
I used to think it's a very childish thing to do after a break up.
But when I go through it myself, I call her after drinking.
So I deleted his phone number.
- And then? - But I still remembered the number.
No matter how drunk, my hands remember the number.
You do it without even looking.
The muscles memorized the number?
Muscle memory?
I leave the phone at home.
I once used my friend's cellphone.
Ah, that.
One day, I found myself walking around the house where he lives
so that I might run into him.
- Really? - That's how men do things.
I often hear I am like a man.
And what if you did run into him?
I just wanted to see his face again.
But in reality
it doesn't looks as beautiful as you imagined. They act confused.
If you run into him beside his new girlfriend.
Oh my.
Wouldn't that help you in letting him go?
That could be but...
I couldn't see him at all so I tried so hard to run into him
- but I never once ran into him. - I guess it wasn't meant to be.
And I only hear about him through others.
Sometimes, waking up after a night of drinking, you noticed you called her about seven times.
It would've been better if she didn't answer but...
- How long did the calls last? - Five seconds... Seven seconds.
'This is Yi Hyun.'
When I miss a phone call from a number I don't know
I usually don't call back, but I call hoping it might be her.
Because it could be her.
When you re-visit the places you went together, they bring back the memories, right?
Instead of getting rid of them or avoiding them
I go there deliberately so that I will become numb.
So I feel neutral about those places.
For someone like me, it would bother me.
How many relationships after you became a celebrity?
I've been in two relationships since I became a celebrity.
I dated too.
I do get a little obsessive about things.
I can sleep only after I talk to her.
I just need to know she's home.
I just need to know where she is.
Can you even call that an obsession?
Isn't it being interested?
No, no, when I call her
I call her ten or twenty times...
Within three hours. Because I couldn't talk to her.
I saw a different side of you, Jae Dong.
I thought you would be so cool about it.
I do get a little obsessive when it comes to people.
- How come? - I've had that since I was young.
When I look at people, I feel they might leave me soon.
But you have many siblings in your family.
I do.
Our mother raised us all by herself.
I heard in a situation like that, one may feel anxious that your mom may leave you anytime.
I asked someone.
So when someone tells me they like me, I don't go, 'I like that.'
'Why?' I think. 'Why would you like someone like me?'
I used to make jokes about it.
Don't you have to love yourself?
I've never done that before.
There are times where he made a woman feel sympathy toward him and...
Because of that, I use that storyline again and again.
- That's so true. - That's right.
When I hang out with people like you, I feel comfortable.
People like me feel inferior to others so we don't want to make others feel bad either.
I would ask them a question.
'Don't you feel depressed when I talk about depressing stories too much?'
He told me with a totally innocent smile
'It doesn't matter if someone around me feels sad because I always feel good.'
He told me that.
Kang Pool, come drinking with me some time.
Don't you like to have a good time when you are drinking?
But everyone has their own approach to drinking.
- I don't think you can force that... - You two are alike.
They get so angry when they are drunk.
- I don't get angry. - Aren't I right?
And there is something different about me than you two.
They work even hard when we go for a staff dinner.
I like to have fun and enjoy myself.
We talk about this program during dinner since we're a new program.
I wonder how this might work and and how about that.
Since this is a variety show, I thought a staff dinner would be so much fun.
But...
'When you throw that question at me!'
[Impersonating this person.]
- No, no. - I didn't expect that.
He takes off his glasses too.
I said it's not like that.
[This, this is it!]
Really, I use a tone that's completely neutral.
You don't need to prolong the meeting. You just need to decide this one thing.
Both of you would've been in big trouble if it were for Kim Hee Sun.
You should recognize that.
- I acknowledge it. - I acknowledge it.
[You said we are so boring?]
He's told so many dirty jokes already.
You know...
I am sorry but I need to vent.
Dong Yup's like this...
And then...
'So what I mean is...'
He speaks with a very quiet tone.
'You shouldn't do that in that situation.'
'You shouldn't do that,' he says.
Because he shouts here then he spoke in a very quiet tone there
I was so... so scared.
Dong Yup's style is like this...
He makes you faint but not with a punch.
He slides in from here and goes through your entire body like this.
I hear you, I hear you.
He does that as a comedian as well. He doesn't shout and demand that you do something.
'When you take off your glasses, it's so entertaining.'
'Jae Dong, people say you look ugly if you take off the glasses but I don't believe that.'
'But I am not saying you should.'
Oh, that's right! That's right!
'Then should I take off my glasses?' I ask him.
The way to make him stop talking is not to cover his mouth.
- You just need to tie his hands. - Oh, that's right!
When you hold back his hands like this...
Try and talk.
Without any hand motions.
- I need my hands moving to... - Without moving your hands.
So when I am losing to him in an argument
I don't keep talking. I just hold back his hands.
'So what are you going to do now?'
I don't like the fact that my hands are right here!
I couldn't imagine what could be there besides that.
The fact that your lover's past bothers you... 'She's a kleptomaniac?'
Kleptomaniac?
[That would be bothersome.]
- When I discover she has a criminal record. - She stole one of my...
Criminal record?
Let's check the answer!
Of course, it doesn't make sense.
You forgive them even if she has a criminal record.
'Do you want to live with me?'
- No.. - That was a hint.
Soo Bin didn't know she was giving hint and...
'Why is she doing this?'
'Do you want to have a dinner with me or live with me?'
Ah, when we sit in bed, side-by-side.
When I find out that they sat on a bed together.
When you find out their lover used the same bed with someone else.
Does that mean they are living together or just coming over for dinner?
They are sitting on the bed with the person you are going out with
and you find out she/he sat on that bed with another man or woman, you mean?
Doing all I can to sugar-coat it.
You talk about watching television for no reason.
When I found out when she was almost married to someone.
When I find out she lived with someone else
with the level of emotional and physical intimacy of being married.
Why don't you just call it 'living together?'
Instead of talking about being almost married and stuff.
Living together, right?
Living together.
When I find out she lived with someone else.
Let's check the answer!
[First place for people in their thirties.]
[First place for the people in their forties.]
[First place for the people in their fifties.]
People who are older than thirty are either living with that person or they are about to.
Because they know so well what kind of intimacy it requires
to live together with someone.
So it's hard to accept it.
If I am about to marry her, I would tell her about it before hand.
I've done that before.
Would you like her to tell your about her past too?
- That's a hard one. - Isn't it?
- I wouldn't like her to tell me. - Right?
I think it's better to travel together than live together.
I don't think would be enough...
- You can't learn everything about them through it. - This means single guys think it's that easy.
Traveling together to prepare for the marriage...
Women change.
Is it because of their makeup?
[Pardon?]
Things like that are not that important.
Whether they have their makeup on or off.
And there isn't any difference either.
[Ahem!]
Okay, bring some cleansing tissues for her.
Let's erase half of your face. Show us.
We'll erase it and introduce a new host to you.
- A younger looking host. - She does it for no reason.
I have to put make up on in order to look as old as you two.
It's not that she thinks quick on her feet. She's just born naughty.
Then do you... Maybe I shouldn't ask this to an idol musician?
If nobody knew, how do you feel about living with someone?
I think it's a good experience.
In order to prevent making a mistake...
Jae Dong?
Whether people knew about it or not, as long as I could live with her.
I am 39 years old now, approaching 40.
Life is too short for me to worry about what others think of me.
He's living together with himself now.
Have you ever thought about living with someone?
I think I might have thought about it before.
- When I feel lonely. - Yes, that's true.
- You thought about it but... - I did but something definitely stopped me.
I think I get that way because it's nearing the time for me to get married.
Could there be a situation where you live with someone without marriage as the pre-condition?
That's what living together with someone means.
So instead of seeing how marriage might go by living together with that person
living together without any conditions?
That's how it should be.
When you say it that way... Since I said it's okay to live together with someone, I look as if...
- I am worried about it. - You don't need to.
It's okay for a 39 year old.
It may sound like a common story but
I think there stark difference between going out with someone and marrying someone.
Marriage is like a promise that we'll give a birth to life and raise it to become a person, right?
[He lost another point to Mr. Wise Sayings.]
Generational differences were so clear today.
The more people age, the more they become concerned about living with someone.
People under twenty think about about physical affection.
People in their twenties think about the pain of a break up.
As people get older, people think about life
and asking deeper questions.
Yes.
- [Miso!] - [Gosh!]
[When in Love VS Reality.]
[There are glasses that make you see only perfection in your lover.]
I think one needs to be willing to go through pain in order to be able to love again.
Love is a taxi. You have to pay for as long as you were on it.
If you cannot hold onto the current of a river, then become an ocean and wait instead.
Subtitles by DramaFever
I am afraid of females so much.
'Mom told me to.' Three women around me... 'Honey?'
[Hwasin is once again free-swinging!]
'I'll be home late.'
Women made it up.
- Then, wash first before seeing her. - Can't do.
What?
[Kim Bum Soo knows how to make women fall for him on the first date?]
Bum Soo, you made an excellent choice in becoming a singer.
A battle of goddesses.
Could there be two suns?
[The result of the battle is?]
On Tuesday nights... Hwasin!
Hwasin is a show that you are creating.
You can still be involved in this process.
You can also open your heart.